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Should I Swallow? Hey Lucy!I read your blog and it is really cool and here’s a question for  you!I have decided to have a foursome with a friend of mine and 2 guys that he knows. Well, I am all for it, but my friend is telling me that I have to swallow; isn’t that a bit dangerous so that I might get something?I mean, I don’t know what my friend does in sex, and even though I like him I don’t swallow, and he wants me to swallow all three of them?Help!You don’t have to swallow. You don’t have to do any goddamn thing you don’t want to do, girl!Having a foursome with three dudes sounds like it could be a crazy and fun exploit, but it could also be overwhelming. You’ll be outnumbered 3-1, as the only woman present in this sexual situation. No matter what your friend wants, or what the other 2 guys want, all that really matters is what YOU want. If they want to come in your mouth and you don’t want to swallow their semen, then you totally have that right. If you think there is any possibility of your desires and requests not being granted, then forget about it altogether. Yes, it is a bit dangerous, and yes, you could catch “something.” All sexual acts involving exchange of bodily fluids pose some sort of risk to the participants. Oral sex is less risky than vaginal or anal sex, but there are still a number of STIs that can possibly be contracted by you if you’re going down on anybody. And you don’t even have to swallow to catch something either; just having a dude’s jizz in your mouth could lead to a transmission of an STI (If you have tiny cuts or abrasions in your mouth. Like from brushing or flossing). With any sort of riskier sexual act (like a foursome), it is important to have a game plan first. Tell the guys what you’re into and what you’re not. Agree on a safe word and a safe signal, like tapping him on the shoulder or snapping; if your mouth is full of dick, you won’t be able to say the safe word coherently if you need it. It needs to be understood by all four of you that the safe word/signal is an absolute: the action stops, every reassesses and discusses the situation. You’re allowed to leave at any time.If you’re going beyond oral sex, bring a stash of condoms and use them. A new rubber for each dick, btw. And each orifice that each dick is entering. Actually, you could even use condoms for oral sex; a little-used, but safer sex practice. That’s what those “kiss of mint” and other flavored condoms are for (you always get ‘em free in the bags from Planned Parenthood…). So be safe and take care of yourself, and then have fun! Having the attentions of three guys at once? Whoo hoo, sounds like it could be a blast!Xoxo, Lucy

Should I Swallow?

Hey Lucy!

I read your blog and it is really cool and here’s a question for  you!
I have decided to have a foursome with a friend of mine and 2 guys that he knows. Well, I am all for it, but my friend is telling me that I have to swallow; isn’t that a bit dangerous so that I might get something?
I mean, I don’t know what my friend does in sex, and even though I like him I don’t swallow, and he wants me to swallow all three of them?
Help!

You don’t have to swallow. You don’t have to do any goddamn thing you don’t want to do, girl!

Having a foursome with three dudes sounds like it could be a crazy and fun exploit, but it could also be overwhelming. You’ll be outnumbered 3-1, as the only woman present in this sexual situation. No matter what your friend wants, or what the other 2 guys want, all that really matters is what YOU want. If they want to come in your mouth and you don’t want to swallow their semen, then you totally have that right. If you think there is any possibility of your desires and requests not being granted, then forget about it altogether.

Yes, it is a bit dangerous, and yes, you could catch “something.” All sexual acts involving exchange of bodily fluids pose some sort of risk to the participants. Oral sex is less risky than vaginal or anal sex, but there are still a number of STIs that can possibly be contracted by you if you’re going down on anybody. And you don’t even have to swallow to catch something either; just having a dude’s jizz in your mouth could lead to a transmission of an STI (If you have tiny cuts or abrasions in your mouth. Like from brushing or flossing).

With any sort of riskier sexual act (like a foursome), it is important to have a game plan first. Tell the guys what you’re into and what you’re not. Agree on a safe word and a safe signal, like tapping him on the shoulder or snapping; if your mouth is full of dick, you won’t be able to say the safe word coherently if you need it. It needs to be understood by all four of you that the safe word/signal is an absolute: the action stops, every reassesses and discusses the situation. You’re allowed to leave at any time.

If you’re going beyond oral sex, bring a stash of condoms and use them. A new rubber for each dick, btw. And each orifice that each dick is entering. Actually, you could even use condoms for oral sex; a little-used, but safer sex practice. That’s what those “kiss of mint” and other flavored condoms are for (you always get ‘em free in the bags from Planned Parenthood…).

So be safe and take care of yourself, and then have fun! Having the attentions of three guys at once? Whoo hoo, sounds like it could be a blast!

Xoxo, Lucy

26 August 16
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