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Just Ass-k Him- It Could Be A Hole Lot of Fun! Dear Lucy, I really like having my boyfriend’s fingers in my ass, but I also worry about it. Doesn’t he think it’s gross? I am afraid to ask him. Does your boyfriend actually put his fingers in your ass? Or would you like him to, but you haven’t asked him yet? Let’s address the first scenario: your man sticks a few digits in your bootyhole while you’re messing around. How did this happen in the first place? If he just started playing around with your other orifice one day, and his fingers slipped in, and then you started panting and moaning… well, then he probably doesn’t think it’s gross. He probably thinks it’s hot. He likes that you’re excited, he likes that you’re doing something dirty in bed, maybe he’s hoping that he’ll get to stick his dick in your ass someday too. If you asked him to play with your butt initially, and he obliged willingly, then, again, chances are that he’s into it. Good lovers- men and women in any combination- love to hear what their partners are into. They want to know what gets their BF or GF off. Having sexy times with a partner isn’t fun just because that other person plays with you; it’s fun to see your lover feeling pleasure! You, reader, feel pleasure from your lover’s fingers in your ass. He gets pleasure from your pleasure. It’s a delightful cycle. OK, it’s also possible that you haven’t told him yet that you want his fingies all up in your ass. Tell him. He won’t think it’s gross. Here’s a secret: all dudes like ass play. They all secretly want to fuck your ass. They want their own asses played with. It feels great all around. If you’re uncomfortable with the gross factor of booty play, take a nice hot bath or shower before jumping into bed. If you feel clean and comfy, then you can feel less paranoid about his feelings being the opposite. And don’t be afraid to ask him. You gotta communicate with your lover- it’s the only way for sex to work. If you have a nice open dialogue with your man, things will just get better and better. Xoxo, Lucy p.s. Sorry about the title of this piece, I can’t help myself with the stupid sex puns.

Just Ass-k Him- It Could Be A Hole Lot of Fun!

Dear Lucy,

I really like having my boyfriend’s fingers in my ass, but I also worry about it. Doesn’t he think it’s gross? I am afraid to ask him.

Does your boyfriend actually put his fingers in your ass? Or would you like him to, but you haven’t asked him yet?

Let’s address the first scenario: your man sticks a few digits in your bootyhole while you’re messing around. How did this happen in the first place? If he just started playing around with your other orifice one day, and his fingers slipped in, and then you started panting and moaning… well, then he probably doesn’t think it’s gross. He probably thinks it’s hot. He likes that you’re excited, he likes that you’re doing something dirty in bed, maybe he’s hoping that he’ll get to stick his dick in your ass someday too.

If you asked him to play with your butt initially, and he obliged willingly, then, again, chances are that he’s into it. Good lovers- men and women in any combination- love to hear what their partners are into. They want to know what gets their BF or GF off. Having sexy times with a partner isn’t fun just because that other person plays with you; it’s fun to see your lover feeling pleasure!

You, reader, feel pleasure from your lover’s fingers in your ass. He gets pleasure from your pleasure. It’s a delightful cycle.

OK, it’s also possible that you haven’t told him yet that you want his fingies all up in your ass. Tell him. He won’t think it’s gross. Here’s a secret: all dudes like ass play. They all secretly want to fuck your ass. They want their own asses played with. It feels great all around.

If you’re uncomfortable with the gross factor of booty play, take a nice hot bath or shower before jumping into bed. If you feel clean and comfy, then you can feel less paranoid about his feelings being the opposite.

And don’t be afraid to ask him. You gotta communicate with your lover- it’s the only way for sex to work. If you have a nice open dialogue with your man, things will just get better and better.

Xoxo,

Lucy

p.s. Sorry about the title of this piece, I can’t help myself with the stupid sex puns.

10 November 22
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