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SEX ADVICE RELAY: JANUARY 2011 I’m thinking of making this a monthly column, wherein I challenge my loquacious self to answer many questions in a paragraph or less. So, on your marks… get set…   Dear Lucy, If a girl has been fingered a lot and bled a bit the first time that happened, will there still be blood when she actually loses her virginity? I’d say probably not. It sounds as if she/you may have had her/your hymen break the first time she/you were fingered. (Let’s just say you. It’s more personal.) I wasn’t there for the initial bleeding, but you probably bled because your cherry was popped, or perhaps you were scratched inside by accident. But you don’t mention pain, and that seems unlikely. There could be blood the first time you have sexual intercourse, but it’s my best guess that you’ve already gotten that out of the way. Dear Lucy, Well I haven’t had sex since me and my boyfriend, of a year and half, broke up in April. I’ve been feeling the need for sex, but I don’t want to have sex with just anyone. So I’ve been watching porn and masturbating to it. Is it normal for an 18 year old girl to watch porn? I mean, I feel as if porn is only for guys. Totes normal. Yes, most porn is geared toward guys, but that doesn’t mean girls can’t enjoy it as well. The internet is not your brother’s treehouse; there’s no possibility of “no girls allowed” porn websites. I think you are wise not have sex with “just anyone”, and to engage in some self-lovin’ in the meantime. Check out Babeland’s sweet guide to porn for women: http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/features/womenguidetoporn. Or the “female friendly” link on Pornhub. Dear Lucy, I just had sex with my boyfriend, and my period started during sex! Is it true that you can’t get pregnant when you have your period? No! It is NOT true that you can’t get pregnant on your period! It may be less likely, but it is not entirely out of the question. Use your preferred type of birth control during your period, and the rest of the time, too. Dear Lucy, Follow up question for the herpes post. My friend has herpes and a current outbreak. I borrowed her tights and wore them. Can I have gotten herpes that way? Highly unlikely. The herpes virus is passed through skin-to-skin contact, and not through inanimate objects like clothes, towels, soap, or toilets. Dear Lucy, May we see you naked? :) Of course not. I intend to preserve my privacy as much as possible. And that goes for all you anonymous folks who ask if I want to sleep with/blow/date them. Not gonna happen. If you read my blog consistently and thoroughly, you’d know that I am contentedly involved in an awesome relationship, which remains “closed” as of now. So, please enjoy all my blog has to offer, and know that you’re not gonna get anything beyond that from me. Honestly; some people! xoxo, Lucy

SEX ADVICE RELAY: JANUARY 2011

I’m thinking of making this a monthly column, wherein I challenge my loquacious self to answer many questions in a paragraph or less. So, on your marks… get set…

 

Dear Lucy,
If a girl has been fingered a lot and bled a bit the first time that happened, will there still be blood when she actually loses her virginity?

I’d say probably not. It sounds as if she/you may have had her/your hymen break the first time she/you were fingered. (Let’s just say you. It’s more personal.) I wasn’t there for the initial bleeding, but you probably bled because your cherry was popped, or perhaps you were scratched inside by accident. But you don’t mention pain, and that seems unlikely. There could be blood the first time you have sexual intercourse, but it’s my best guess that you’ve already gotten that out of the way.

Dear Lucy,

Well I haven’t had sex since me and my boyfriend, of a year and half, broke up in April. I’ve been feeling the need for sex, but I don’t want to have sex with just anyone. So I’ve been watching porn and masturbating to it. Is it normal for an 18 year old girl to watch porn? I mean, I feel as if porn is only for guys.

Totes normal. Yes, most porn is geared toward guys, but that doesn’t mean girls can’t enjoy it as well. The internet is not your brother’s treehouse; there’s no possibility of “no girls allowed” porn websites. I think you are wise not have sex with “just anyone”, and to engage in some self-lovin’ in the meantime. Check out Babeland’s sweet guide to porn for women: http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/features/womenguidetoporn. Or the “female friendly” link on Pornhub.

Dear Lucy,

I just had sex with my boyfriend, and my period started during sex! Is it true that you can’t get pregnant when you have your period?

No! It is NOT true that you can’t get pregnant on your period! It may be less likely, but it is not entirely out of the question. Use your preferred type of birth control during your period, and the rest of the time, too.

Dear Lucy,

Follow up question for the herpes post. My friend has herpes and a current outbreak. I borrowed her tights and wore them. Can I have gotten herpes that way?

Highly unlikely. The herpes virus is passed through skin-to-skin contact, and not through inanimate objects like clothes, towels, soap, or toilets.

Dear Lucy,

May we see you naked? :)

Of course not. I intend to preserve my privacy as much as possible. And that goes for all you anonymous folks who ask if I want to sleep with/blow/date them. Not gonna happen. If you read my blog consistently and thoroughly, you’d know that I am contentedly involved in an awesome relationship, which remains “closed” as of now. So, please enjoy all my blog has to offer, and know that you’re not gonna get anything beyond that from me. Honestly; some people!

xoxo,

Lucy

6 January 10
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