
Hi Lucy,
What are some good songs to put on when I am seducing a hot guy?
-LA Woman
Dear L.A. Woman,
Excellent question. I think that a sexy play list goes in stages. The songs should build up appropriately as things get hotter and heavier, in order to match the bedroom mood. Here’s a few ideas:
Warming up…
“Sexual Healing” or “Let’s Get it On,“ by Marvin Gaye
Put on these classics, and start a little dirty dancing toward the bedroom. Dance real close, front to front, turn around and rub your booty on your lover, move away and just hold his hands. Switch up your proximity to each other to build up the friction. When the song is winding down, you’ll be ready to enter the bedroom with no plans to leave for a good while. Also a good time to remove potentially dangerous jewelry, watches, belt buckles, etc.
In the bedroom, making out and groping…
“Gimme the Car,” the Violent Femmes
The yearning and desire in this song builds up as yours does.
Feverishly tearing off each other’s clothes…
“Spread,” Outkast
Oh, Outkast. Thank you for just straight up saying what it is we’re all thinking. Sometimes it’s “you’re a bitch,” or “that dope money might not always be sufficient,” but in this case, it’s simply, “Spread. Spread for me.” Who could resist a line like that?
And then, the oral sex! (Sorry, Monty Python reference, totally not sexy…)
“Caress Me Down,” Sublime
My favorite blowjob song. It’s got a fun, spunky energy (ew, sorry for THAT pun). The lyrics are dirty and it’s a fun beat to bounce around to. The chorus is something like “And I went MMM, and the girl caressed me down…” I like to concentrate my oral efforts on the head of the cock for the beginning of the chorus, and then do a really deep-throat thing every time he says “MMM.” Try humming along for some added sensation.
Receiving oral…
“To Catch a Thief,” Lovage
Alright, anything from this album called “Music to Make Love to Your Old Lady By,” is perfect for sexy time. This one’s my fave, and someone going down on me is my fave, so I put them together. Choose any song from this album to whatever you want to in bed. It’ll enhance pretty much any experience.
OK, let’s put on a rubber and get down to business.
“Why don’t we do it in the road,” the Beatles
Yeah, I don’t think I could classify many Beatles songs as major sex anthems, but this one undoubtedly is. If exhibitionism, voyeurism, and danger make you hot, this song will totally do it for you. The lyrics are quite simple, “Why don’t we do it in the road? No one will be watching us…” The raw rock emotional singing and the persistent, persuasive words make this a good time to get on top of your man and just go crazy.
Getting into it…
Let the rest of the tunes flow through you while you’re caressing, flip each other around and try different positions, laugh, yell, bite, whisper, just go with it.
“Hey Hey What Can I Do?” Led Zeppelin
“Sexy Mother Fucker,” Prince
“Sitting in my Car,” Slick Rick
“Let Me Put My Love Into You,” ACDC
“A Long Walk,” Jill Scott
“Instant Pleasure,” Rufus Wainwright
“Sweet Wanomi,” Bill Withers
“Breathless,” Corinne Bailey Ray
“Stormtrooper,” Pepper
“Candy,” Paolo Nutini
“Just Like a Woman,” Nina Simone
Anything by Barry White
Lying in bed afterwards, smoking a cigarette…
“Easy,” by the Commodores
Nothing could make you more relaxed than a song all about taking it easy. Well, don’t listen to the words too closely, cause they may involve someone leaving someone else because that other someone is too overbearing. BUT! Who cares? You’re still all flushed and feeling good; the chorus of the song is so catchy and easy to sing along too. Just stroke each other’s hair, don’t drop cig ash in the bed, and smile and giggle until you fall asleep.
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