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Supposedly, It’s Good for Your Skin Dear Lucy,I’m a guy that enjoys giving women come facials, but I have been told a few times that it is demeaning to the women I am doing it to. Is there anything wrong with it and are there women that truly enjoy it?Thanx Let’s start by explaining what a facial is, for anyone who has never heard the term. When a man comes (ejaculates) on to the face of his lover, that is known as a “facial.” I assume this term comes from the a person getting white creamy stuff all over his/her face, just like they would if they were getting a spa facial with some fancy skin cream. Facials are common in porn, particularly at the end of a blow job. In a lot of porn, the guy getting blown will pull out of the BJ-giver’s mouth right before he orgasms, and then jizz on the face of the BJ-giver. This “money-shot” is super popular in porn, probably because it’s kinda dirty and kinky, and it proves that the sex in the porn shoot was “real” enough to result in a visible orgasm (by the guy getting the BJ, at least) in the end. And it’s probably popular because it is, in a way, demeaning.Demeaning sex acts are not inherently bad. Often, a couple’s first foray out of the strictly vanilla-sex realm is to get into some sort of power play. This may mean that either one of the partners plays a dominant role, while the other is more submissive. These roles during sex could have nothing to do with the couple’s relationship outside of the bedroom. A woman may be super bossy and a strong leader in her job and household, and yet she might enjoy being submissive when she’s in private with her partner. The same goes for guys. What I’m trying to say is, yes, it may seem demeaning to give a woman a facial. But some women like that. There are indeed many women that like it- have no fear! The only thing wrong with giving a woman a facial is not asking first. Are the women whose faces you’re coming on aware that you are about to come on them? Because that could be an unpleasant surprise if it is not expected. So, ask her beforehand if she’d be OK with you coming on her. She may surprise you and tell you that she would love it. Then again, she might say no way, and you have to respect that.If the people telling you that it’s demeaning to give facials are not the women you are giving them to (unclear from the way you worded your question), then those naysayers should mind their own business. Another bit of advice about giving/getting a facial: holler a warning right before the come starts spraying, so the receiver can close her/his eyes. Jizz in the eye stings like hell. And have a towel handy for clean up. xoxo, Lucy

Supposedly, It’s Good for Your Skin


Dear Lucy,
I’m a guy that enjoys giving women come facials, but I have been told a few times that it is demeaning to the women I am doing it to. Is there anything wrong with it and are there women that truly enjoy it?
Thanx 

Let’s start by explaining what a facial is, for anyone who has never heard the term. When a man comes (ejaculates) on to the face of his lover, that is known as a “facial.” I assume this term comes from the a person getting white creamy stuff all over his/her face, just like they would if they were getting a spa facial with some fancy skin cream.

Facials are common in porn, particularly at the end of a blow job. In a lot of porn, the guy getting blown will pull out of the BJ-giver’s mouth right before he orgasms, and then jizz on the face of the BJ-giver. This “money-shot” is super popular in porn, probably because it’s kinda dirty and kinky, and it proves that the sex in the porn shoot was “real” enough to result in a visible orgasm (by the guy getting the BJ, at least) in the end. And it’s probably popular because it is, in a way, demeaning.

Demeaning sex acts are not inherently bad. Often, a couple’s first foray out of the strictly vanilla-sex realm is to get into some sort of power play. This may mean that either one of the partners plays a dominant role, while the other is more submissive. These roles during sex could have nothing to do with the couple’s relationship outside of the bedroom. A woman may be super bossy and a strong leader in her job and household, and yet she might enjoy being submissive when she’s in private with her partner. The same goes for guys.

What I’m trying to say is, yes, it may seem demeaning to give a woman a facial. But some women like that. There are indeed many women that like it- have no fear! The only thing wrong with giving a woman a facial is not asking first. Are the women whose faces you’re coming on aware that you are about to come on them? Because that could be an unpleasant surprise if it is not expected. So, ask her beforehand if she’d be OK with you coming on her. She may surprise you and tell you that she would love it. Then again, she might say no way, and you have to respect that.

If the people telling you that it’s demeaning to give facials are not the women you are giving them to (unclear from the way you worded your question), then those naysayers should mind their own business.

Another bit of advice about giving/getting a facial: holler a warning right before the come starts spraying, so the receiver can close her/his eyes. Jizz in the eye stings like hell.

And have a towel handy for clean up.

xoxo, Lucy

5 March 21
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