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Nips Tips Dear Lucy, Does a man touching nipples really have something to do with orgasms? I’ve always wondered if it was related… Nipple stimulation is a great way to enhance a sexual experience. Nipples are an erogenous zone of the body, and there are many nerve endings in the nips. When they are played with, the sexual-excitement hormone, oxytocin, is created. So, yes, touching nipples does indeed have something to do with orgasms, at least for some folks. Nips can get aroused and hard when they are touched, just like a dude’s cock or a girl’s clit. I find that the more stimulation, the harder they get. Some people have hard nipples all the time, whereas others need a little coaxing to come out of hiding. Inverted nipples are also fairly common; wherein the nipples point inward instead of sticking out from the chest (my left nip does this sometimes when I’m cold). During a silly game of Truth or Dare a couple years ago, I was dared to suck on a friend’s nipple. Before she pulled up her shirt, she declared that she had “innies,” but let me tell ya, they were just as sensitive as any other nipples I’ve sucked on. Guys may not find nipple play as arousing as girls; I’ve had a few dudes tell me it just felt “weird.” Others, however, really dig it. One guy I know didn’t have very sensitive nipples, but he wanted to get more arousal from them. He got his nipples pierced, and now touching and sucking on them makes him crazy (in a good way). Plus, it looks super hot. Some people can actually have an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. I’ve never quite gotten there, but I’ve gotten real close. I know that if I’m on a train to orgasm town, the ride will always be speedier if my nips are involved. So, whether you are a guy or girl or in between, if you are having a hard time having an orgasm with a partner (or yourself), consider adding nipples into the equation. Brush them gently on the outside of your clothes, touch and squeeze, suck and bite. Some people get off on rubbing ice cubes on them (Cosmo’s favorite risqué sex tip). If these methods are all old news, consider graduating on to nipple clamps (pretty awesome if you find the right ones) or those little nipple suction cups (never tried them but they look intriguing). Doesn’t matter how big or small, all nipples deserve some love and attention. Xoxo, Lucy

Nips Tips

Dear Lucy,

Does a man touching nipples really have something to do with orgasms? I’ve always wondered if it was related…

Nipple stimulation is a great way to enhance a sexual experience. Nipples are an erogenous zone of the body, and there are many nerve endings in the nips. When they are played with, the sexual-excitement hormone, oxytocin, is created. So, yes, touching nipples does indeed have something to do with orgasms, at least for some folks.

Nips can get aroused and hard when they are touched, just like a dude’s cock or a girl’s clit. I find that the more stimulation, the harder they get. Some people have hard nipples all the time, whereas others need a little coaxing to come out of hiding. Inverted nipples are also fairly common; wherein the nipples point inward instead of sticking out from the chest (my left nip does this sometimes when I’m cold). During a silly game of Truth or Dare a couple years ago, I was dared to suck on a friend’s nipple. Before she pulled up her shirt, she declared that she had “innies,” but let me tell ya, they were just as sensitive as any other nipples I’ve sucked on.

Guys may not find nipple play as arousing as girls; I’ve had a few dudes tell me it just felt “weird.” Others, however, really dig it. One guy I know didn’t have very sensitive nipples, but he wanted to get more arousal from them. He got his nipples pierced, and now touching and sucking on them makes him crazy (in a good way). Plus, it looks super hot.

Some people can actually have an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. I’ve never quite gotten there, but I’ve gotten real close. I know that if I’m on a train to orgasm town, the ride will always be speedier if my nips are involved.

So, whether you are a guy or girl or in between, if you are having a hard time having an orgasm with a partner (or yourself), consider adding nipples into the equation. Brush them gently on the outside of your clothes, touch and squeeze, suck and bite. Some people get off on rubbing ice cubes on them (Cosmo’s favorite risqué sex tip). If these methods are all old news, consider graduating on to nipple clamps (pretty awesome if you find the right ones) or those little nipple suction cups (never tried them but they look intriguing).

Doesn’t matter how big or small, all nipples deserve some love and attention.

Xoxo, Lucy

12 April 10
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