Gettin' Down in Chi-Town
Smokin’ Hot- In Bed or Not!Hey Lucy,I love smoking girls, it’s a smoking fetish. I do not smoke, except when I’m excited.Is it normal? How could I tell my fetish to a girl I’m dating? Should I tell her? I would love to date a light smoker and have sex with her while she smokes… Is it abnormal?As far as fetishes go, yours is not that outlandish. Smoking, unlike the practices of many other fetishists, is legal to do nearly anywhere: your home, your car, in public, in every city in the U.S.A. It’s not like you’re trying to pee on her. (I know, lots of people are into that. And that’s ok.)I don’t see it being to difficult to meet a girl who smokes. Just hang out at bars, or, rather, in front or bars (if you live in Chicago or any place with a smoking ban; something I wholeheartedly approve of, by the by.). Chat up a girl who smokes, and you’ve got the first part of your problem figured out.Later, you may successfully end up in bed with said girl. Probably a good idea to wait until you’ve been together a few times before bringing up the fetish, maybe even wait til you’re actually dating. Then, sometime when she’s lighting up casually, and the two of you are alone, tell her that she looks totally sexy when she smokes. I really can’t imagine she’ll take that comment weirdly or badly- gals like to be told they’re good lookin’, and you’ll be telling her the truth anyway!After you tell her, genuinely, that you think she’s hot when she smokes, try something like, “Actually, I wouldn’t mind if you smoked while we’re in bed sometimes. It would turn me on a lot.” And, hot damn! You’re done. She’ll very, very likely be like, “OK, sounds good.” I mean, don’t many smokers already enjoy a square in bed during the cool down after a sexual romp? She’d just be smoking a little beforehand, as well. You could even join her. It seems like a simple conversation should do the trick, and you’ll have your smoking goddess in no time. And, being me, I have to throw in some safety tips. I’m imagining worst-case scenarios, so just be careful not to light your bed on fire. Or burn each other’s hair and skin. And, of course there’s that whole lung cancer/other ways to die from smoking thing. I’d feel a little weird not mentioning that. This last bit’s like a surgeon general’s warning. Except I’m not a surgeon. I’m just your friendly neighborhood sex advicer lady. Xoxo,Lucy

Smokin’ Hot- In Bed or Not!

Hey Lucy,
I love smoking girls, it’s a smoking fetish. I do not smoke, except when I’m excited.

Is it normal? How could I tell my fetish to a girl I’m dating? Should I tell her? I would love to date a light smoker and have sex with her while she smokes… Is it abnormal?


As far as fetishes go, yours is not that outlandish. Smoking, unlike the practices of many other fetishists, is legal to do nearly anywhere: your home, your car, in public, in every city in the U.S.A. It’s not like you’re trying to pee on her. (I know, lots of people are into that. And that’s ok.)

I don’t see it being to difficult to meet a girl who smokes. Just hang out at bars, or, rather, in front or bars (if you live in Chicago or any place with a smoking ban; something I wholeheartedly approve of, by the by.). Chat up a girl who smokes, and you’ve got the first part of your problem figured out.

Later, you may successfully end up in bed with said girl. Probably a good idea to wait until you’ve been together a few times before bringing up the fetish, maybe even wait til you’re actually dating. Then, sometime when she’s lighting up casually, and the two of you are alone, tell her that she looks totally sexy when she smokes. I really can’t imagine she’ll take that comment weirdly or badly- gals like to be told they’re good lookin’, and you’ll be telling her the truth anyway!

After you tell her, genuinely, that you think she’s hot when she smokes, try something like, “Actually, I wouldn’t mind if you smoked while we’re in bed sometimes. It would turn me on a lot.” And, hot damn! You’re done. She’ll very, very likely be like, “OK, sounds good.” I mean, don’t many smokers already enjoy a square in bed during the cool down after a sexual romp? She’d just be smoking a little beforehand, as well. You could even join her. It seems like a simple conversation should do the trick, and you’ll have your smoking goddess in no time.

And, being me, I have to throw in some safety tips. I’m imagining worst-case scenarios, so just be careful not to light your bed on fire. Or burn each other’s hair and skin. And, of course there’s that whole lung cancer/other ways to die from smoking thing. I’d feel a little weird not mentioning that. This last bit’s like a surgeon general’s warning. Except I’m not a surgeon. I’m just your friendly neighborhood sex advicer lady.

Xoxo,
Lucy

10 May 8
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