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Virgin Week: Dry Sex Dear Lucy,Me and my boyfriend are easing our way into sex, as we are both virgins. We had dry sex/dry humping and I ended up climaxing. My friend thinks this is weird, and doesn’t believe that I did. Is it wrong that I climaxed? :( Glad to hear that you’re easing your way in, no need to rush if you’re not ready.Your friend is a jerk. It is totally possible to climax from dry humping. Women (I assume you are female) usually achieve orgasm from rubbing the clitoris, and it was likely being rubbed from your dry sex (ooh, I like that term so much better than humping!) with your boyfriend. Guys and girls can totally get off through clothing or other materials, sometimes it makes messing around even hotter (lingerie, anyone?).Stereotypically, young guys come really quickly when they’re first embarking on their sexual frontier. You know, you see it in movies all the time: the young guy touching a hot young girl for the first time, and splooging before he can get his pants off. Andy Samberg even did a hilarious digital short on the subject. A buddy of mine told me a story of his youth, dry humping with a girl while he was home sick with the flu. He ended up jizzing in his pants, then ran to the bathroom as a cover up, saying he had to puke, as if that was better. (I always wondered how that poor girl felt about the whole experience…)Young women, however, usually take more time to figure out how to have an orgasm with a partner. I think it’s totally awesome that you came so easily! Your friend probably doesn’t believe you cause she’s jealous. And I am having a very difficult time thinking of any circumstance in which it would be wrong to climax.Xoxo, Lucy P.S. Based on reader feedback, I’m going with UNICORNS as the theme image for Virgin Week. Virgins are the only ones who can tame a unicorn, so they say. Thanks, virgins, for doing your part in the mythogical-animal-taming department. This week’s for you.

Virgin Week: Dry Sex

Dear Lucy,

Me and my boyfriend are easing our way into sex, as we are both virgins. We had dry sex/dry humping and I ended up climaxing. My friend thinks this is weird, and doesn’t believe that I did. Is it wrong that I climaxed? :(

Glad to hear that you’re easing your way in, no need to rush if you’re not ready.

Your friend is a jerk. It is totally possible to climax from dry humping. Women (I assume you are female) usually achieve orgasm from rubbing the clitoris, and it was likely being rubbed from your dry sex (ooh, I like that term so much better than humping!) with your boyfriend. Guys and girls can totally get off through clothing or other materials, sometimes it makes messing around even hotter (lingerie, anyone?).

Stereotypically, young guys come really quickly when they’re first embarking on their sexual frontier. You know, you see it in movies all the time: the young guy touching a hot young girl for the first time, and splooging before he can get his pants off. Andy Samberg even did a hilarious digital short on the subject. A buddy of mine told me a story of his youth, dry humping with a girl while he was home sick with the flu. He ended up jizzing in his pants, then ran to the bathroom as a cover up, saying he had to puke, as if that was better. (I always wondered how that poor girl felt about the whole experience…)

Young women, however, usually take more time to figure out how to have an orgasm with a partner. I think it’s totally awesome that you came so easily! Your friend probably doesn’t believe you cause she’s jealous. And I am having a very difficult time thinking of any circumstance in which it would be wrong to climax.

Xoxo, Lucy

P.S. Based on reader feedback, I’m going with UNICORNS as the theme image for Virgin Week. Virgins are the only ones who can tame a unicorn, so they say. Thanks, virgins, for doing your part in the mythogical-animal-taming department. This week’s for you.

23 July 10
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