Gettin' Down in Chi-Town
Sixty-Nine Time! Dear Lucy,I really want to 69 with my boyfriend and he is VERY keen to do it too. I have given him head a few times, and he has eaten me out plenty of times. That’s not the issue… It’s just, I don’t exactly like the idea of him being so close to my bumhole, it’s okay when he eats me out, cause he’s not close to it, but in 69 isn’t his like nose heaps close to it? I don’t shave down there, only near my pussy, and I am just super duper uncomfortable with him being that close, will it smell or will he accidentally lick it? I am so worried about something going wrong. But I want to do it. :(First off, I love the term bumhole. It’s cute! Well, that may be debatable I guess. In any case, we don’t say it enough in America. I resolve to use it more.More importantly, YES, your boyfriend’s nose will be close to your bumhole while you are 69ing each other. This is not, however, a situation for worry. In case you haven’t noticed, sex is a sticky, dirty, sweaty, smelly situation. And that’s ok, in fact it’s glorious! Unless you want to go forth into a lifetime of boredom in bed, you will need to accept that uncomfortable, dirty things will happen during sex sometimes. And after a while, you may even learn to love them.You have great worries about being eaten out upside-down, thinking that something will “go wrong.” If you’re worried about smelling bad, there are a few things to consider. If you’re super uncomfortable, just wash your butt before sexy time, with a little soap and warm water on a wash cloth. If you’re worried about farting in your guy’s face, well, accept that it could happen some day. Generally, however, I think that you’ll be able to tell that a toot is coming; give him fair warning, so he’ll have time to move before getting a noseful of potent gas.  Also, keep in mind that you don’t need to 69 every day of your life after you try it the first time. 69ing is an awesome way for both partners to get pleasure, and it’s a great alternative to peen-vag penetration. But it’s probably not the only thing you and your partner will ever do together in the whole wide sex world. What I mean by this, is that you can suggest something else besides the 69 if, for instance, you ate a ton of chili and you are feeling particularly gassy some evening. Something that keeps noses farther away from bumholes.As for your other worry, “will he accidentally lick it?” Darling, I would not put this in the category of “something going wrong.” Not at all. He may, indeed, accidentally lick your butt while going down on you. But that, in my opinion, is not something to be afraid of! In fact, many people quite purposefully lick each other’s bumholes, because many people agree that it feels pretty nice. Who knows, maybe your bf’s desire to 69 actually has something to do with licking bumholes! He may even want you to do it to him! This is definitely an activity that requires washing up beforehand; I suggest a sexy shower in which you soap each other up. Then, when you get down to 69 time, you’ll both know that the other’s bumhole is clean as a whistle. Do not be afraid! Sex is all about adventure!xoxo,Lucy

Sixty-Nine Time!

Dear Lucy,

I really want to 69 with my boyfriend and he is VERY keen to do it too. I have given him head a few times, and he has eaten me out plenty of times. That’s not the issue…
It’s just, I don’t exactly like the idea of him being so close to my bumhole, it’s okay when he eats me out, cause he’s not close to it, but in 69 isn’t his like nose heaps close to it? I don’t shave down there, only near my pussy, and I am just super duper uncomfortable with him being that close, will it smell or will he accidentally lick it? I am so worried about something going wrong. But I want to do it. :(

First off, I love the term bumhole. It’s cute! Well, that may be debatable I guess. In any case, we don’t say it enough in America. I resolve to use it more.

More importantly, YES, your boyfriend’s nose will be close to your bumhole while you are 69ing each other. This is not, however, a situation for worry. In case you haven’t noticed, sex is a sticky, dirty, sweaty, smelly situation. And that’s ok, in fact it’s glorious! Unless you want to go forth into a lifetime of boredom in bed, you will need to accept that uncomfortable, dirty things will happen during sex sometimes. And after a while, you may even learn to love them.

You have great worries about being eaten out upside-down, thinking that something will “go wrong.” If you’re worried about smelling bad, there are a few things to consider. If you’re super uncomfortable, just wash your butt before sexy time, with a little soap and warm water on a wash cloth. If you’re worried about farting in your guy’s face, well, accept that it could happen some day. Generally, however, I think that you’ll be able to tell that a toot is coming; give him fair warning, so he’ll have time to move before getting a noseful of potent gas.  

Also, keep in mind that you don’t need to 69 every day of your life after you try it the first time. 69ing is an awesome way for both partners to get pleasure, and it’s a great alternative to peen-vag penetration. But it’s probably not the only thing you and your partner will ever do together in the whole wide sex world. What I mean by this, is that you can suggest something else besides the 69 if, for instance, you ate a ton of chili and you are feeling particularly gassy some evening. Something that keeps noses farther away from bumholes.

As for your other worry, “will he accidentally lick it?” Darling, I would not put this in the category of “something going wrong.” Not at all. He may, indeed, accidentally lick your butt while going down on you. But that, in my opinion, is not something to be afraid of!

In fact, many people quite purposefully lick each other’s bumholes, because many people agree that it feels pretty nice. Who knows, maybe your bf’s desire to 69 actually has something to do with licking bumholes! He may even want you to do it to him! This is definitely an activity that requires washing up beforehand; I suggest a sexy shower in which you soap each other up. Then, when you get down to 69 time, you’ll both know that the other’s bumhole is clean as a whistle.
Do not be afraid! Sex is all about adventure!

xoxo,
Lucy

17 August 19
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